random porn customers… part 42 (sexy not so sexy?)

I know I’ve talked about getting hit on at the porn store in a previous blog, but not about this aspect of it. On the days I dressed kind of sexy, with cleavage baring tops or short skirts, I hardly ever got hit on. Even if I had fishnets and heels on, not a nibble was usually to be had, unless you count drunken frat boys… and I don’t.

But sometimes I would have my hair up in a bun, hardly any makeup on, and would be wearing more conservative clothes. And on those days when I looked like, well, like a librarian, I had guys all over me. And they tended to talk to me more respectfully and asked me out for dates, not for fucks. One customer would ask me out every time I looked conservative, but he was always shyer when I had my chest hanging out.

Are the traditional sexy clothes too intimidating? Is there something to be said for looking approachable?  Or do you think the not-so-hot girls are easier? Come on guys, inquiring minds want to know. And ladies, have you had any experiences with this?

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  1. Not sure about others, but I would rather have a woman who looks good in a business suit than vamping it up. Now don’t get me wrong, their is a time and a place for being vamped up.

    But I cannot really explain why that trips my trigger. Maybe it is because Mother always wants their young men to find nice girls, who knows. To me it may be just pure greed. A woman who can afford to dress that way on a regular basis probably has a career and a place to live already, and most likely will not need a man for financial support, which would fulfill my goal of living as a pool boy. 🙂

    But I am not educated enough to get into what could be a Freudian concept. But you gotta admit, some women can pull the vamp look, others cannot, and this is the same for the prim and proper look too.

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  2. You know I think smart and funny is sexier than cheap and easy. And the librarian look plays right into that. And it is similar for a lot of guys I know. Experience has told us that the girls who are together on the outside are also more likely to be a lot of fun both in and out of the sack, whereas the girls that flaunt it are either prudes or lousy in bed.

    Oh, and sometimes the vamp look, on a smart chick IS kind of intimidating if you aren’t in the market for a dominatrix LoL.

    N

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  3. When I wear my glasses at work, people (both sexes) are quite a bit more conversational and friendly. My job doesn’t allow much for the sexy clothes, so I don’t have any feedback on that. All I know is, if I’m having a particularly crappy day and not feeling up to dealing with bad attitudes, I throw on the ol’ reading glasses before heading to the job =]

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  4. “Or do you think the not-so-hot girls are easier?”

    I don’t think it’s that so much as a desire to unleash the hidden tiger-in-bed that no one else knew existed, that only you recognized, and who is now hopelessly and forever yours in slavish gratitude for introducing her to pleasures she never imagined. So much so that she is willing to indulge in some hot girl-on-girl action and anything else that you might desire.

    You know, THAT guy fantasy.

    If a woman looks TOO hot, the guy just figures she’s been there, done that and won’t have anything to do with his broke, sorry ass.

    And he’d be right. LOL!

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  5. You know, I’m agreeing with XO on this one.

    Plus add in the fact that the girl working in the porn store looks like a porn star maybe implies she is looking for a porn-hung guy…

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  6. Keith – Good point. In a nutshell (no homo), an ordinary looking woman filled with latent, unexplored, potential sexuality inspires a guy to go exploring. She seems approachable and she boosts his self esteem.

    A woman exploding with obvious sexual energy and charisma who looks and dresses like a porn star makes ordinary guys curl up in a ball of self doubt and shy away from even saying hello for fear of rejection.

    There is another category of women that fall in between these two extremes. I don’t have a catchy name for them. But they are “women who are attractive, but not nearly as attractive as they think they are”. They look “okay”. They dress in expensive clothes. They carry themselves well. They are always tanned. Their hair is seldom it’s natural color. They have a SHITLOAD of attitude and a bloated self-esteem. But there really isn’t much “there” there. No personality. No intelligence. No charisma. No redeeming or likeable qualities. Just a fragile shell of manufactured attractiveness that doesn’t stand up to close scrutiny. They usually live in Johnson County, drive expensive cars, wear sunglasses that cost almost as much as their cars and have more jewelry than the Pope. These are the women who are accustomed to being the Center of Attention.

    I give these women no more attention than I give the guy on the corner holding a sign saying “Will Work For Food”. Don’t make eye contact. Don’t speak. Pretend they aren’t there. Don’t Feed The Beast! LOL!

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  7. There is a saying that I have yet to find a man that disagrees with it “Men want a whore in bed and a Lady in Public”. Men will always be attracted to the lady (your librarian) because that is some one they can take home to there mother. But they will always want to bang the sluttier dressed woman.

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